I've been seeing my current boyfriend for two years now. His bed is nothing to write home about just a futon and a smelly old bedspread. But he bought special dust-free pillows just for me, and occasionally even makes the bed in the morning.
The sheets should probably be washed more than they are, but it doesn't bother me, because they smell like us.
For some reason, I've never had a problem falling asleep at his house.